Abstract from the book, Darkness To Light; Is
               Is Your Spouse Cheating On You?

 Adultery today... "Doesn't anyone stay together anymore?
            Tell-Tale Signs of A Wayward Spouse

                     by Michael E. Enlow
              (C) Copyright 1994, Michael Enlow


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                            DISCLAIMER

This document was written by an expert, quite knowledgeable in
the methods and techniques of good, successful investigation.
The author has based this material solely upon his discoveries
and experiences in the trade but is not an attorney. Thus no legal
advice is offered herein.

Be cautioned therefore, that this document neither asserts the
legality of any of the methods described herein, nor does it
advocate any usage of techniques without first seeking competent
legal advice and adherence to the law.

The author, editor, and service providers, unequivocally disclaim
any responsibility for damages resulting from the use of any of the
techniques or the consequences of implementing anything contained
herein. This writing is provided strictly for informational purposes
only.

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Please be advised, Michael Enlow is a professional investigator
with years of experience in the arts and sciences of investigation.
He has had considerable experience in the arena of domestic
investigations and the documentation of adultery.

The following article is an abstract from the book: Darkness
To Light and should not be looked upon as a sure way of
detecting and/or determining with certainty that adultery is
taking place. The following signs have shown themselves
repeatedly as suggestions that additional inquiry was in
order, but they should not be used in a judgmental fashion
without proper inquiry and additional investigation.  DO NOT
take these symptoms as proof of adultery, they are only signs
that you "make want to take a closer look..."



                         Introduction

Everyone remembers seeing a paranoid couple trying to "hide"
their actions and affections.  This was very likely one of
the many thousands of secret rendezvous which occur daily in
our world.  For many years I have been the representative of
people involved in exactly this unfortunate situation.

Many times these meetings are innocent but all too many are
the doings of an unfaithful spouse.  Obviously, by taking the
time you took to get this file, you probably have suspicions
of your own.  I hope your suspicions are unfounded.  However,
if they are not, you DO have a right to know.....  and I'll
help you find out.

                             How?

Well, you see.... there's a certain amount of "detective" in
everyone.  Properly instructed, one can use a few simple
concepts of investigation to detect activities of this sort.
Sometimes, harmony can be restored to a relationship under
such strains , but often times, one spouse will decide to
pursue divorce.  Following the concepts of good investigation
and watching for the "tell-tale" signs given within this
special report, often will help protect your and your family
from the break-up.

I believe God has inspired me to write this report and pass
it on to a world of hurting people.  Through this manual, you
will gain the knowledge necessary to help resolve your
personal problem.  Maybe then you will again share the joy of
life that makes our world a better place.

                                 Michael E. Enlow
                                 Legal Investigator

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        23 "TELL-TALE" SIGNS OF A WAYWARD SPOUSE

Years of performing domestic investigations have revealed
various behavioral patterns among those who engage in
adultery.  These are the patterns which allow the adulterer
to be discovered.  While these various signs are offered to
help you in reaching a determination as to whether or not
further investigation is in order -- they are not PROOF in
and of themselves.

Here they are.... the 23 "tell-tale" signs of a wayward
spouse which have surfaced during my career are listed here:

Your spouse:

1) is offended by small comments that once went unnoticed

2) begins taking a stronger interest in his or her
   appearance; becomes obsessed with loosing weight, gaining
   weight, etc.  They will join a health club, begin
   bodybuilding, sun-tanning, etc.

3) will begin to keep company with a certain person or group
   of individual unknown by you.  Many times, this person (or
   group of people) will be someone with whom they are
   sharing their guilt.

4) will begin to be "working late" when they seldom have in
   the past.

5) will often lose sexual interest in their spouse.

6) will become offended and sometimes ask if "you're checking
   up on me?!"

7) will frequently have unexplained absences.

8) will make comments when questioned or condemned -- for
   example, "not everyone feels that way."

9) will sometimes ask for a divorce without a reasonable
   explanation.

10) may get a post office box and not allow you to have a
    key.

11) will no longer allow you to use the family credit cards
    or to see the bill.

12) will arrive home smelling like cologne or perfume other
    than their own.

13) will sell or transfer ownership of many of the family
    goods to prevent them from becoming part of the property
    settlement.

14) will begin to consume drugs and/or alcohol.

15) will lose interest in his or her home life and children.

16) will charge up all credit accounts in preparation of
    ending the relationship.

17) will make statements such as "I'm not sure I love you
    anymore" or "You have destroyed my love for you."

18) will become cold and inconsiderate concerning your
    feelings when they used to really care.

19) will buy a new wardrobe or begin wearing a new perfume or
    cologne.

20) may find reasons to get away from family gatherings on
    holidays etc., to wish holiday greetings to a lover.

You:

21) will begin to receive many hang-up telephone calls.

22) may find the passenger seat in the family car moved from
    it's usual position.

23) may sometimes find a different brand of cigarettes in the
    car's ashtray, and many times with lipstick on them.

     There you have it.... the 23 most common "tell-tale"
signs that your spouse may be cheating on you.

     Any one or combination of these actions of a suspected
spouse does NOT necessarily mean that he or she is having an
adulterous affair.

     These signs simply imply that an adulterous affair COULD
be occurring or could be about to occur.  These 23 tell-tale
signs should help you decide if further investigation is in
order.  The human mind functions in many bizarre ways in
response to stress and other underlying emotional factors and
these guidelines are NOT absolute proof that someone is
having an affair.... don't blow things out of proportion.  It
is strongly recommended that this be kept in mind before
proceeding with an investigation.  This report is designed
to help you in the pursuit of peace of mind.... and to find
out if your spouse is cheating or not.

     Statistics indicate that approximately fifty percent of
marriages this year will end in divorce.  Many of these
individuals seem to have lost respect for the sacred nature
of the marital vow.  What has happened to their marriage
covenant?  What happened tot he combining of mind, body, and
soul never to be broken -- where commitment of absolute
truth and honesty was considered a natural way of life?
Today anyone over the age of five can watch television, and
see actors in violative relationships.   It's sad but,
adultery has become a way of life is this society.

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